I have heard that a lot. Clearing the air. What does that actually mean? I think it means that one person gets to clear the air for themselves no matter what others need or understand. It makes me think of driving through the fog. You cannot really see, and you are straining to see in front of you. However, if you would just wait it out maybe you could see.
This last weekend, I had a friend who was in a car accident. She was hit head on by another car. She escaped with broken ankles and it was a reminder that life is short and we cannot depend on having another moment. We have to live our lives knowing that the air is as clear as we leave it.
This does not help in knowing how to clear the air or for what purpose. I guess we all depend on air to live and the clearer the air the better. The question is are we around people who are fogging it up or are we the ones doing the fogging? Which brings me back to my original question… What does it mean to clear the air? Am I responsible for the air that other people mess up around me? I guess if I want to have clear air and they are not doing it then I will have to do it.
And environmentalists are only concerned with the actual air. No wonder they are not doing anything about the damage that people do with their actions and words. That would probably be a losing cause! Or is it?
Your new blog design is lovely… all peaceful and soothing.
I think so many times people ‘clear the air’ by telling all of their ugly feelings to people who are actually harmed by those feelings. But I think, in the end, the only thing we can be responsible for is how we respond to the air around us, regardless of who smogs it up.
By: Chel on July 3, 2007
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